“What is Happening?”: Children of Blood and Bone’s Tomi Adeyemi’s cryptic video alluding to suffering “panic attacks” after filming sparks concern

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American author and creative writing coach Tomi Adeyemi’s 2018 romantic fantasy novel Children of Blood and Bone is now being adapted into a feature film by Paramount. However, it hasn’t been a pleasant experience for the 32-year-old Adeyemi, who reportedly left the movie set “sobbing” and called it the “worst thing I’ve had to live through.”

In a five-minute video posted on her social media on July 29, the bestselling novelist said:

“I’m gonna post this, so, ideally I won’t have to talk about this anymore. What I’m about to share is not a secret to the people involved. It’s a reality that I’ve had to live with for about a year and a half, and everyone involved, at least at the highest level, has been made aware of this reality, and they haven’t done anything to make it better. If anything, they’ve only antagonized me, and I accept that. But I also accept that if I don’t say something, I think it’s just going to be worse.”

Tomi Adeyemi continued:

“I’m not gonna speak on what I endured to make it through the young adult trilogy, and I’m not going to speak about everything that I also suffered through or endured to make the adaptation a reality. I’m actually only going to speak about what happened after I left that set of my own film adaptation, hyperventilating and sobbing. There are many witnesses, so it’s not really a secret. I came back to America and suffered such severe somatic pain and so many panic attacks. I knew it was so bad that I would never ever be able to watch this film, and I made peace with that.”

Tomi Adeyemi appeared to be upset and nearly breaking down in the video, which has now sparked concern among netizens. One of them, aka @blackgirlnerds, commented underneath her Threads post:

“What is happening?!?!”
A netizen sparks concern about Tomi Adeyemi's cryptic video. (Image via Threads)
A netizen sparks concern about Tomi Adeyemi's cryptic video. (Image via Threads)

Many joined the conversation on X.

“What did they do to her? We need to name these people and expose the antagonism. Why are they being protected?” a fan asked.
“What the hell actually happened behind the scenes for her to be this pensive because she hasn't actually said anything???” another fan enquired.
“Lawyer here! For those wondering why she’s being vague about what happened, that’s almost certainly because she signed an NDA in exchange for the book series to be adapted at all. If she breaks it, they will have every right to sue her into oblivion, making an already painful situation 100x worse,” a third individual noted.
“The pain in the way she’s talking about it is hard to ignore. Regardless of how the movie turns out, nobody should have to go through that kind of stress over their own creation,” one user stated.

Meanwhile, others called out the author for being vague in her video and trying to seek attention.

“Lmaooo what a f**king attention seeker!!! Film adaptations are always different from source material. You should’ve read the fine print before you signed your contracts. Please hold on to your books and let the rest of us enjoy the films. If you’ve distanced from the film, please stay distanced!” a netizen wrote.
“She just said a whole lot of nothing. Is this a performance?? Tell the whole truth or just let it go and enjoy your millions of dollars,” another person cited.
“No offence to this great writer, but she needs to learn to not take herself and Hollywood so seriously. She is not the first writer to be treated badly by Hollywood and I can assure you she will not be the last. LA is a brutal place for writers and if you don't want to deal, then stay away,” an individual stated.

More about Tomi Adeyemi’s cryptic video about the Children of Blood and Bone adaptation

Tomi Adeyemi told her social media followers on Wednesday that she never wants to “hear about” the Children of Blood and Bone movie again; however, as it was still being “marketed” through the trailer release on Tuesday, she had to speak about her alleged onset experience without going into the details.

“And as I am still being antagonized behind the scenes, which is where I hoped all of this would stay, it’s become apparent to me that reality needs to at least be made known, so that you guys can understand how this film, which I worked on to make it a little better for us to be alive, is also the worst thing I have ever had to live through,” the Harvard alum said.

Tomi Adeyemi claimed she doesn’t “wish to speak on it anymore” but wasn’t sure if that’s possible as she has a “public presence” and the film is a “global project” based on her book.

“It’s probably useless posting a video… I don’t do things like this, but I also understand that being silent about it is making the pain a lot worse. And even though it feels awful to share this, it’s better to share it and have it known and understood before I see a bunch of you for this new book. So please understand, I never want to hear about this project again,” Tomi continued.

Speaking about Paramount and director Gina Prince-Bythewood, Tomi Adeyemi, who co-wrote the screenplay, noted she has nothing to say about them and no longer cared about the adaptation; if anything, she was “trying to move on.” She added:

“This video might make it worse, but I don’t know how it can be any worse. So, I’m just going to share that and let it live.”

Earlier this month, Tomi Adeyemi hinted at a feud with lead actor Amandla Stenberg (Princess Amari) in a since-removed TikTok video. Her clip offered a glimpse of “The Tominators” group chat where fans asked why she wasn’t promoting the movie. The novelist said:

“There is a reason I will not post anything about the adaptation of my work. That's all. From this point on, if you want to support me, you can purchase any edition of the trilogy at a local independent children's bookstore.”

A screenshot of the author and the actor’s chat from February 2025 was also included. It saw Tomi Adeyemi tell Amandla Stenberg:

“Do not ever use my name in an interview or video again. Do not text me. Do not call me.”

Tomi Adeyemi’s screenshot also showed she had blocked Amandla Stenberg, who previously faced online backlash from the fans of the Children of Blood and Bone book over her casting and alleged use of colorism.

At the time, Tomi Adeyemi hinted she hadn’t seen the movie and wouldn’t watch it.

“I’m going to leave it at this. You are the only people I care about. I have fought for this for 14 years, and if you ever felt like I didn’t care about you, it was only because I could not speak to you contractually… It’s been painful holding this back from you all and I’m sorry if any of you thought I didn’t care.”

Tomi Adeyemi also clarified in a comment:

“I do not mind anyone going to watch the film. I wrote this for us. I fought for us. I'm just laying down my sword and officially separating my name because I can't keep being hurt and attacked behind the scenes.”

Paramount purchased the rights to Children of Blood and Bone in 2022 and it was filmed between February and June 2025. Leading up to the production, Tomi Adeyemi promoted the adaptation on her social media. However, she was missing at CinemaCon 2026, where a Paramount panel offered a “first taste” of the movie, slated for a January 15, 2027, release.

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Edited by Pallavi K