Who is Sylvester Stallone’s mom, Jackie Stallone? Rocky star recalls mother refusing to attend Oscars amid their fraught relationship

48th Kennedy Center Honors - Source: Getty
Sylvester Stallone - 48th Kennedy Center Honors - Source: Getty

Veteran actor, writer, and filmmaker Sylvester Stallone appeared on an episode of his daughters Sistine and Sophie’s podcast Unwaxed and spoke about his late mother, Jackie Stallone, who was a celebrity astrologer, dancer, reality personality, and women’s wrestling advocate.

Sylvester Stallone, 80, said that the night he was nominated for an Oscar for his performance as Rocky Balboa in the first film of the sports drama franchise Rocky is “one of the saddest days of my life.” He explained:

“A year before, I was destitute. I had nothing, I was broke. And it came out, and a miracle happened, and I’m with some of the best films in Hollywood. I’m like, God, I’m in the same category as Best Picture. These are great writers, great people. And they gave me a front-row seat.”

The Special Ambassador to Hollywood continued:

“And I invited my mother. I told her I’m up for an Oscar… I was a bum a year ago. She goes, ‘All right, but you have to invite Vivian.’ I go, ‘Who’s Vivian?’ She goes, ‘My hairdresser.’ I go, ‘I don’t have a seat for your hairdresser. It’s you and me, front row.’ She goes, ‘If you don’t invite Vivian, I’m not coming.’ I go, ‘You haven’t seen Vivian in ten years; she lives in Washington, DC.’ She says, ‘I want to see Vivian with me, and then I’ll go.’ Well… she didn’t go.”

Sylvester Stallone recalled going alone to the ceremony and added that when people think he “loved the Oscars” he really didn’t. When Sistine asked whether Jackie ever “acknowledged” being proud of her actor son in his entire career, he replied, “No, not even once.”

Later in the same conversation, Sylvester Stallone said that his mother repeatedly told him that the only reason he was alive was that the “hangar didn’t work” or “bouncing down those steps didn’t cause you to get lost.” Jackie also said that if she knew there was something wrong with Sly’s brain, she would have opened up the window and “put you on the windowsill and let you freeze,” calling it a “favour.”


All you need to know about Sylvester Stallone’s mother

Jacqueline Frances Labofish was born in Washington, D.C., in November 1921, to a lawyer father, John Paul Labofish, and homemaker mother, Jeanne Victoria Anne ‘Adrienne’ Clerec. She had a younger sister and grew up in the home of Italian-born American bodybuilder Charles Atlas. In fact, it was Atlas who trained Jackie and her sister in gymnastics, jogging, and weight-lifting.

Sylvester Stallone’s mom became the first woman to host a daily TV show on exercise and weightlifting in D.C. and also launched a women’s-only gym in her hometown called Barbella’s. Elsewhere, she also worked as a trapeze artist for Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey circus companies and a dancer and a chorus girl in a nightclub in her youth. For a brief period, she became a hairdresser.

In the 1980s, Jackie Stallone worked as a promoter, manager, and House Mother to the “good girls” on Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling (GLOW). Later in 2005, she appeared as a surprise contestant on the third season of the UK’s Celebrity Big Brother and competed against her former daughter-in-law, Brigitte Nielsen.

Additionally, Sylvester Stallone’s mother appeared on Richard Simmons and the Silver Foxes workout videos in 1986. Elsewhere, Jackie Stallone gave a tour of her Los Angeles home in an episode of BBC’s Through the Keyhole in 2007.

In 1989, she published her astrology book, Star Power: An Astrological Guide to Supersuccess, which not only offered advice but also her personal readings on A-listers Madonna, Elizabeth Taylor, and Michael Jackson.

“My marvelous, extraordinary, irrepressible, unpredictable Mother. Considering that she has successfully predicted every major event in my life through her uncanny mastery of the ancient art of astrology, I can say this is one momma who really knows best,” Sylvester Stallone shared about the book at the time.

Throughout the 1990s, Sylvester Stallone’s mother also wrote several other books, made television appearances, and even launched a paid psychic hotline service. She also coined a term called ‘rumpology’ which was a practice of looking at lumps, crevices, and wrinkles of an individual’s rear end to gain insight into their potential future and personality traits.

“It’s the only thing you can take with you, and never leave it at home. You can leave an arm at home, a leg at home, do you ever see someone walk around without their behind?” Jackie explained it to Graham Norton in 1999.

Jackie Stallone was first married to Italian hairstylist-actor Frank Stallone Jr from 1945 to 1957, with whom she shared two sons, Sylvester and actor-singer Frank Jr. The former couple appeared on The Howard Stern Show in May 1992, where she revealed she wanted to have Sylvester Stallone aborted and later faked an abortion, and Frank Sr (died in 2011, aged 91) didn’t know about his son until his birth.

Her second husband was Anthony Filiti. Together, they welcomed daughter Toni D’Alto (died in 2012 from lung cancer).

She was married to her third husband, Stephen Levine, from 1998 until she died in September 2020, aged 98.

Jackie’s survivors also include her six grandchildren. She reportedly had another son named Tommy.

Frank Jr announced his mother’s death via social media back then. It read:

“This morning my brothers and I lost our mother Jackie Stallone. She was the mother to four children, Tommy, Sylvester, Frankie and my late sister Toni Ann. She was a remarkable woman, working out every day full of spunk and fearless. She died in her sleep as she had wished. It was hard not to like her; she was a very eccentric and flamboyant person.”

Sylvester Stallone and his brother have spoken about their rough childhood due to their parents’ busy careers and contentious relationship. In fact, they often spent more time in boarding houses than at home. It was much later that they mended their relationship with their mom. Frank Jr once said:

“My brother Sylvester took care of her like a Queen for all of her life.”

In his 2023 Netflix documentary Sly, Sylvester Stallone revealed:

“Even though she was nine months pregnant, she kept riding around on the bus. She went into labor. Somebody was smart enough to get her off the bus; they carried her into a charity ward. And that’s where I was brought into the world via this accident, which kind of paralyzed all the nerves on the side of my mouth. So, I was born with this snarl.”

The Rambo star further explained:

“The majority of the time, I was living in a boarding house, basically 12 months a year, never went home, because they just didn’t have time; they were both working.”

Frank Jr echoed similar sentiments:

“I’d be up in bed and you’d just hear them screaming and yelling… I think they were both so self-absorbed with their own stuff that they just pawned us off.”

In his tribute for Jackie Stallone upon her passing, his younger son also praised her mind, calling it “as sharp as a razor” till the day she died, adding that talking with her was a “history lesson in itself.”

“She never wore a mask, a true revolutionary gal. I guess I'm drowning my emotions in tears and too much vino. But when you've known someone for 70 yrs, it's tough and sad. She had seven grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren… I will never be able to call my mom again or have her yell at me why I never got married. But we all loved her and her spirit to survive and prevail. I'll miss you always, mommy.”

Sylvester Stallone, for his part, has been married thrice and has four living children. His eldest child, actor Sage Stallone, died in July 2012, at the age of 36.

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Edited by Pallavi K